It’s been close to two months since launching my blog. I have learned a ton already and I know I have ton more still to learn.
Lets start with the raw truth of managing a sex blog. It’s challenging! It’s challenging in the sense you are semi-handicapped. I don’t know if its the cancel culture we are living in or the people that have negatively exploited sex, but don’t expect a warm welcome in a lot of places.
I’ve been “spammed” on twitter. After couple weeks they opened my account back up, but by then I was too pissed to care. I still share new blog posts via twitter but that is it.
Advertising companies don’t seem to want to work with erotic content. After publishing my book: Quickie, I tried to create a mini campaign to help reach a few more people. Advertising will not work with me because of my “mature content”
I can not have Ads on my own blog because of my mature content.
And I’ve been “warned” on Facebook for posting content not in compliance. This is what I posted:
This was flagged as being inappropriate… HOWEVER! These were perfectly fine….
When these above were shown throughout my page they said NOTHING….
I am not sharing these things with you to scare you off from entering this kind of genre. I am sharing this with you so you know what to expect.
I am still posting and slowly building my audience. I am just having to do it with less assistance than someone who blogs about baking or beauty.
I’m not giving up and I don’t want you to either. Just know you are going to face a few more setbacks than other people. Which is fine because when you finally do succeed your victory will mean that much more!
Pink said it best, “… it’s just you and your hand tonight”
Even though this is about a guy having to rub one off because he wasn’t going to be getting lucky.
I find nothing wrong about masturbation. I’ve seen many times where the female will get upset if she finds her guy rubbing one off while watching porn. I find this absurd! Why does it matter if he is rubbing one off? This is an opportunity to join in and help. I don’t think anyone should me ashamed to want to feel good. I love sex with my spouse, but I also like to masturbate too. There shouldn’t be a rule where once you are in a relationship you can no longer self pleasure yourself. It is your body and you should be able to go exploring as much as you want!
There is something about having alone time. You can really step out and try something new without judgement. Plus, I find that those who masturbate know exactly what they want and can express that to their partner for a better sexual experience. I know exactly where to tell my guy to put the vibe to drive me wild.
What are your thoughts? Is there such a thing as too much masturbation? If you are in a relationship should you still be self- pleasuring?
Being a girl I got to thinking. What kind of orgasm do you prefer? While I was with my best friend shopping we ended up at Spencer’s. As we got to the back I noticed some sex toys and wanting some advice I asked her which toy I should get. She replied, well what kind of orgasm do you want? Do you like playing with your clit or do you prefer a dildo. Hence, that’s where today’s post comes from.
Let me get this out of the way. This is just going to be “My” opinion. Every female is going to have a different answer. So if your interested to read my thoughts on which I prefer continue…
Both are obviously going to feel good. As I was brainstorming I made a list of pros for each orgasm.
Easier to reach climax
Stronger, more intense because of all the nerve endings on head of clit
Vaginal is great, but much harder to achieve. For me I have to really build and work kind of hard (no pun intended) to have an orgasm via this method.
Clitoral is my favorite. It’s easier for me to achieve the intensity I want. There are many ways I can stimulate my little nub. Plus, I can have back to back orgasms and still maintain the pleasure level. With vaginal after I cum I lose a little bit of sensation..
Overall any orgasm is going to be great. But, when you explore your own body and start to learn what it wants, you will soon realize what it craves. At that moment you will be able to unlock those loud screams that porn stars fake.
We all heard the expression “sounds like porn music”…? I am guessing that is an expression. I know I have used it before. While I can’t say for sure what “exactly” is porn music I do know of a song where every time I hear it I automatically think about grinding up on my guy. I believe the sultriness of the beat is an aphrodisiac.
The song I am referring to is Dark Horse by Katy Perry. If you haven’t heard it here is a Youtube video for you to check out.
I am not a huge Katy Perry fan. Not going to bash her, I just do not like a lot of her music. This song just screams SEX to me. No matter where I am or what I am doing as soon as I hear it my mind goes directly to the gutter. With the type of blog I am writing I can sense a lot of eye rolls right now. I know, it doesn’t take much for my mind to enter gutter territory. Actually, I think it lives there most of the time.
What are your thoughts? Think this is a good sexual song? Comment down below, I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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For years when I played with myself right before I was ready to cum I would immediately stop. Usually, I was watching porn. So I’d enjoy the porn for a little bit and then repeat this process over and over again. When I no longer could handle the torment I’d cum. That my friends is edging. I never knew there was a term for it until much later. I was kinky way before I knew what kinky meant.
Edging is simply just a tease. So, why would someone put themselves through that?
Everyone is going to have a different answer, but these are the two main reasons why I edge.
1.) Every time you build up to an orgasm and then immediately withdraw, it leaves your clit sensitive. The more you continue the more sensitive it will become. Therefore this allows me to have more of an intense experience. The kind that makes your legs shake.
2.) When its finally time to cum the orgasm is much stronger. It’s the kind that makes you death grip your sheets and convulse. Who wouldn’t want that?
People edge for numerous reasons but for me I just love the sensitivity and intense orgasm I achieve. Do you edge? What are your thoughts about it? Drop your thoughts down below in the comments.
As I sit by my window sipping tea and looking out in to the snowy world; I am reminded how growing up everyone seemed fixated on outside winter activities like snowboarding or skating. I on the other hand always thought about naked girls in hot tubs trying to get warm from the winter cold. I imagined couples snuggling and making out by the fireplace. They would be completely naked and under a soft fluffy blanket.
Everything is so dry during the frigid winter because of lack of moisture in air. I always day dreamed about lotioning some beautiful goddess. Never imagined the happy ending like you see in numerous porn movies. I just enjoyed thinking about the teasing and touching.
Winter can bring many different memories for a bunch of people. For me, I still think about those erotic situations. While others are thinking about sledding, building a fort or a snowman, I am thinking about all the new naughty ways a person can have sex.
One of my favorite scenarios was being stranded in the woods. Me and another person (sometimes a girl sometimes a guy) would be driving in the backwoods during a snowstorm. Our vehicle would break down. Miles from anywhere we try to make the best of the situation. To stay warm without consuming all our gas at once we crawl into the backseat and snuggle.
Of course snuggling led to other activities. Innocent kisses on the neck which would send goosebumps through my entire body. Nibbling of my ear. French kissing. While our tongues were exploring each others mouth are hands were exploring each others body.
When it became too much the clothes came off. Even in the freezing temperatures we stayed warm from the heat of our bodies.
I never thought much past the sex, as far as being rescued. I just enjoyed the thought of having sex while stranded in a blizzard. Those are the things I think about as I watch the snow fall while enjoying my cup of tea.
Do you have special fantasies for the winter time? Comment down below I would love to hear them.
I’m Zoey Roberts and I’m a sex blogger. With the craziness that has taken place in 2020 with COVID I’ve decided its time to launch, Kinky Bunny which is an adult blog that has:
Erotic flash fiction stories
Informational posts (i.e. best kegal exercise)
Reviews of adult toys
and much much more…
My goal is to post daily to help build the strength of my writing.Since I’ll be posting every day most of my posts will be short. I am no means a professional writer so there will likely be mistakes here and there through out my blog.
Have a look around and let me know what you think… I am always open to criticism as long as it’s constructive.