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Insomnia



Turning over for what feels like the hundredth time, I haven’t gotten any sleep. Lately I haven’t been getting enough restful sleep. It’s like closing my eyes and nothing happens. The clock shows that several hours have passed, but it doesn’t feel like it. 

I know I am stressed over the in-laws staying with us for several weeks. They are having renovations done on their home and decided it would be the perfect time to visit their son.  Personally, I feel it is a tactic to make sure I am living up to their standards of what a wife should be. 

Rolling over I saw that I still had several hours before I had to get up. Watching my guy sleep is entertaining. He must be having a good dream. Every few seconds he lets out a muffled moan. I wish there was a way to view people’s dreams. I would love to see what my guy dreams about. He always says he dreams about me, but I have a suspicion that he dreams about other girls. Not that I can do anything about it. We don’t have complete control over our dreams. Still, I find it romantic. 

My guy lets out another moan and I decide to take advantage of the situation. Starting at his wrist which is resting on my pillow I slowly begin to kiss his arm.  Every few kisses, soft moans escape from deep in his throat. When I reach the end of his arm I use my nose to push on his cheek to better expose his neck. I plant several soft kisses with a couple of playful bites around his strong jawline. He moves around a little bit. Not a hundred percent sure he is asleep.

I continue to make my way down his chest, planting kisses every few inches. When I reach his waist I know he is awake because I am greeted with a nice bulge. I didn’t want to go straight for the kill so I skipped over his magnificent bulge and continued along his left thigh. A sigh escaped him and my only response was “Patience, Tiger”. 

As I finished kissing my way back up his right side, I was greeted with a huge smirk. Getting on top, straddling him I slowly grind into him while planting kisses all along his jawline.  “Someone is in a playful mood,” he said. “I couldn’t sleep and you were looking too delicious.” I replied. Cupping his jaw I passionately slipped my tongue into his mouth and was greeted with just as eager of a tongue.

His hands started to explore my body. Running down my back and upper thighs and coming back up to squeeze my butt. This only made me grind into him more which he in turn helped further along by pressing my butt into his hard bulge. “Are you sure you want to do this, with my parents right next door?” he asked. Sitting up I pull off my shirt “We are married adults what are they going to do?”

He pushed me over onto my back and made quick work of taking both our shorts off. He teased my pussy. Using the head of his cock, he spanked and rubbed my clit. Then he teased me even more by putting just the tip in. I tried to grind up on him to enjoy more of his length but he held my thighs down. Then he slammed into me. While kissing between my neck and nipples he pounded my pussy. It didn’t take long before I was cumming all over his cock. A few more thrusts and I could feel his warm cum filling my pussy. 

A little out of breath and sweaty he rested his head on my chest.  Wrapping my arms around him I kissed him and finally drifted off to sleep.


Hideout


At the edge of town there is an old house. It’s been abandoned for as long as I can remember. There are rumors floating around town about an old man who lived there. He was a mean old drunk. 

Personally, I do not mind the rumors floating around about the old brick house, at the edge of town. It keeps the public away, which is perfect for my secret hide out.

Living in a house with 6 other people, it’s nice to have my own personal space where I can do my own thing.

My hide out, that I use for things like gambling, drinking and sex. It took a few weeks to get past the creep factor, but now I can easily get off in the house. 

 It doesn’t take much to get a girl to fall out of her clothes in this town. Like Joe Nichols says, “tequila makes her clothes fall off” I’m not much into country, but I sure do like it when her clothes come off.

The latest flavor…. A feisty college girl majoring in American literature. A hopeless romantic…

Starting off slow, I tease and play with her nipples.

Warmed up, she starts stroking my bulge hiding in my pants.

Pulling her hair back in a make-shift ponytail I watch as she unwraps my cock and runs her mouth up and down. 

While teasing my cock with her tongue, I assist a little by slowly fucking her mouth.  The wetter it gets, the more the slurping noises increase. Instant turn-on!

Not wanting to cum from a blow job, I have her ride me. Twisting her nipples and kissing her neck she rides my cock to ecstasy.

She rests her head on my shoulder. Her hair had an intoxicating smell of coconut and vanilla…My favorite flavor so far.


Happiness…


The definition of happy: adj

feeling or showing pleasure or contentment


What makes you happy?


PORN! Sex in general is what makes me happy. You can classify me as an addict, I do not care. As long as it follows legal age and there is consent, you can not tell me porn/sex is bad.

Why does it make me happy?


Raw Truth


It’s been close to two months since launching my blog. I have learned a ton already and I know I have ton more still to learn.

Lets start with the raw truth of managing a sex blog. It’s challenging! It’s challenging in the sense you are semi-handicapped. I don’t know if its the cancel culture we are living in or the people that have negatively exploited sex, but don’t expect a warm welcome in a lot of places.

I’ve been “spammed” on twitter. After couple weeks they opened my account back up, but by then I was too pissed to care. I still share new blog posts via twitter but that is it.

Advertising companies don’t seem to want to work with erotic content. After publishing my book: Quickie, I tried to create a mini campaign to help reach a few more people. Advertising will not work with me because of my “mature content”

I can not have Ads on my own blog because of my mature content.

And I’ve been “warned” on Facebook for posting content not in compliance. This is what I posted:

This was flagged as being inappropriate… HOWEVER! These were perfectly fine….

When these above were shown throughout my page they said NOTHING….

I am not sharing these things with you to scare you off from entering this kind of genre. I am sharing this with you so you know what to expect.

I am still posting and slowly building my audience. I am just having to do it with less assistance than someone who blogs about baking or beauty.

I’m not giving up and I don’t want you to either. Just know you are going to face a few more setbacks than other people. Which is fine because when you finally do succeed your victory will mean that much more!


Sadness after sex…Say What?

Thinking back I can’t remember if I ever experienced sadness after sexual intercourse. Usually I am riding the “high” from the endorphins. I use sex to help relax especially if I am trying to get to sleep. For me, sex is a pleasurable experience during and after. But, for some that is not always the case.

It’s difficult to think that you can experience sadness after sex. Especially after pleasurable and satisfying sex. But, for some, they can experience forms of sadness, anxiety or even depression after sexual relations.  There is actually a medical term for this, post coital tristesse or dysphoria. 

…enjoyment of sensual pleasure is past, the greatest sadness follows.

17th century, philosopher Baruch Spinoza 

Post coital tristesse can affect anyone. Recent studies show it tends to be more common in males. It also affects everyone differently, but the main symptom is a complete contrast of how you were feeling just a few moments ago. 

Have you ever experienced post coital tristesse? If you have don’t feel bad. Surprisingly it is a very common thing. Below are three reasons you might be experiencing P.C.T.

  1. Aftercare- This isn’t just for the BDSM community. After your physical needs are met, you need to make sure your emotional needs are also fulfilled. Cuddles and some pillow talk can go a long way.
  2. Internal conflict- One nighters or casual sex might be fun for awhile. But in the long run it could be creating conflict with your need for intimacy. You could be feeling sad because you know this experience will never be repeated.
  3. Trauma/Shame- Even if the trauma wasn’t sexual in nature being intimate can make you vulnerable which can open old wounds.

Regardless of why are you are experiencing post coital tristeese, know you are are normal.


Kama Sutra


When you hear Kama Sutra, most automatically think of crazy sex positions. Sex positions are what attracted most people to the book, however Kama Sutra is much more than crazy positions.


The Kamasutra, is an ancient Sanskrit (Classical South Asia language) written manuscript that covered many topics. It was written by Vatsyayana Mallanga, sometime within the third century.  The original text was composed of 1,250 verses that made 36 chapters and 7 different parts. 

In the 19th century an adaptation from British explorer Richard Francis Burton which focused more on the primitive sexual concepts. This is what people think of as Kama Sutra.  Many scholars believe that Burton incorrectly translated the text. Burton’s version has men being the only one to receive pleasure where as in the original, both sexes receive pleasure.

What do you think of when Kama Sutra is mentioned? If you read the original you will find it to be much more than sex. It’s a philosophy on life.


3 Sex Myths: Debunked



Myth by definition is a false belief or idea. They hold there weight because of the very thin line of truth behind them. When it comes to sex there are numerous false ideas floating around. I am going to debunk 3 of the top myths I’ve personally heard over the years.

This was a popular one. I can see how people would think this is valid. If you are having trouble conceiving there are certain positions for better success. Being on top would not be the likely choice. However, regardless of what position you are in when the sperm enters your vagina you can become pregnant. Sperm swims. It can also live inside your body for up to five days.

This myth I feel got started to slut shame. The vaginal muscle tissue is very elastic and no penis will ever make it “loose”. If the vagina became “loose” then every female that has given birth would be “loose”. That is not the case. The muscles will bounce back.

“Unless you are engaging in practices that are out of the ordinary, I would say absolutely not.” says Alyssa Dweck, MD, ob-gyn in Westchester, New York and co-author of The Complete A to Z for Your V. “The vagina is an incredibly forgiving area, very rich in nerves and blood supply . . . so traditional penile-vaginal intercourse isn’t going to cause any permanent stretching, although things stretch at the time of course,” Dr. Dweck tells Health.

-From Health.com

Anytime bodily fluids are exchanged there is a chance of spreading germs. This includes STI’s. Unless you create a barrier like a condom or dental dam you are at risk for infection. If you are sexually active it is best to get tested regularly.

STDs can be spread to a sex partner even when the infected partner has no signs or symptoms.  If you are infected with an STD, you might not know it because many STDs may have no symptoms.

-From cdc.gov
Dental Dams are similar to condoms. They are thin 6 inch squares made from latex or nitrile .

#SquirtingSunday

Daily drabble. Drabble = 100 word story

I rummage through my nightstand to retrieve my pink vibrator with the bulb like head. I haven’t used this in so long. Last time it disappointed me. Everyone deserves a second chance. Fingers crossed. The vibrations satisfy my clit. Moving on I slowly insert it, feeling it opening up my pussy. Turning the speed up and angling it a little. I hit a spot where the sensation is a little different, more intense. Tightly gripping the toy I held it on that spot. Warmth rushes through me, everything tightens and my pussy releases it’s juices all over my clean bed.


#FunWithFoodFriday

Daily drabble. Drabble = 100 word story

 I can never seem to guess the correct amount of candy for Halloween. Not wanting to add too many extra calories to my diet I stashed some and hid the rest.  After dinner I grabbed a lollipop and snuggled with the hubby. “Do you have to suck that so loud?” His comment struck a nerve,  I knew he was overwhelmed from work. With a big grin I kneeled before him. Removed his gorgeous cock from his covers and began sucking on both my lollipop and his cock.  He finally was able to relax and I got two treats that night. 


You and your hand

Pink said it best, “… it’s just you and your hand tonight”


Even though this is about a guy having to rub one off because he wasn’t going to be getting lucky.

I find nothing wrong about masturbation. I’ve seen many times where the female will get upset if she finds her guy rubbing one off while watching porn. I find this absurd! Why does it matter if he is rubbing one off? This is an opportunity to join in and help. I don’t think anyone should me ashamed to want to feel good. I love sex with my spouse, but I also like to masturbate too. There shouldn’t be a rule where once you are in a relationship you can no longer self pleasure yourself. It is your body and you should be able to go exploring as much as you want!

There is something about having alone time. You can really step out and try something new without judgement. Plus, I find that those who masturbate know exactly what they want and can express that to their partner for a better sexual experience. I know exactly where to tell my guy to put the vibe to drive me wild.

What are your thoughts? Is there such a thing as too much masturbation? If you are in a relationship should you still be self- pleasuring?